COUPLES, INDIVIDUALS, GROUPS

No matter what you are going through, no matter how painful life has become for you, you are welcome here. When you are comfortable, you can speak more freely. When you can speak more freely, you can do the honest work of being a better, happier, more peaceful human. I can help you with this individually or as a couple.

I have been in practice for 26 years. I offer both compassion and directness. I will ask you questions that will help you think and feel more honestly and openly. I draw on family systems theory, neuroscience, my experience with psychedelics, and neurofeedback. I also draw on the work of Karla McLaren in The Language of Emotions. I help couples and individuals navigate trust after an affair, problems with sexual incompatibility, and deep resentment and divorce. You don’t have to do this work alone. Call, text, or email. I’ll respond within a few hours. You can also learn more about how to free your mind and your relationship after infidelity with my book, The Trust Trap.

Please contact me for a free 30-minute consultation so that we can talk about what you need and how I can help. I offer online and in person sessions, group sessions (both online and in person), and couples private intensive weekends.

My Specialties

After an affair, people often work tirelessly to rebuild trust. But what if their efforts are making trust less likely to emerge than more? Perhaps you’ve done everything you can to rebuild your relationship, but you still find yourself traumatized, lonely, and lost. Is there hope? Miriam Bellamy, LMFT has been working for 26 years with individuals and couples are are trying to recover from infidelity.

She has discovered that the elusive solution to rebuilding trust in a long-term relationship begins with a pause. It begins with an end. An end to all the trying, the forcing, the attempts to cajole trust into existence. Only when couples let go (whether the betrayed spouse or the unfaithful one), do they begin to experience the rebirth. The seven keys for unlocking the trust trap provide a guide for thinking, feeling, and movement forward out of repetitive cycles of conflict and distance into a freer and more honest relationship.