About Miriam Bellamy
Infidelity & Affair Recovery Therapist | Author of The Bridge
For nearly 30 years, I’ve been fascinated by what makes relationships work, what causes them to unravel, and what allows people to grow through even their most painful experiences.
As a marriage and family therapist specializing in infidelity counseling, affair recovery, and couples therapy, I’ve worked with hundreds of individuals and families navigating some of life’s most difficult relationship challenges.
My work is grounded in Bowen Family Systems Theory and informed by the work of Karla McLaren. I believe meaningful change begins with curiosity: asking better questions, examining the patterns that keep us stuck, and developing the courage to see ourselves and our relationships more clearly.
I’m also the author of The Bridge: Discover the Surprising Power of Tension in Healing After Infidelity, which explores how individuals and couples can use the tension following betrayal to develop greater self-trust, emotional maturity, and healthier relationships.
My approach is warm, direct, and often filled with humor. I’m not afraid to ask difficult questions, and I don’t believe the goal of therapy is simply to make uncomfortable feelings disappear. I want to help you understand what those feelings are telling you—and discover what becomes possible when you respond differently.
Whether you’re struggling to recover from an affair, questioning the future of your marriage, or simply feeling stuck in familiar relationship patterns, my goal is to help you move forward with greater clarity, honesty, and confidence in yourself.
From a recent client:
“I wanted to thank you for your thoughts on how to communicate with my husband. I was afraid I was going to start another argument without meaning to, but your ideas changed how I approached him, and it made all the difference.” -EB
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If You’re Struggling In Your Relationship After Infidelity, You’re In The Right Place
Are you looking for help with infidelity but aren’t sure where to begin? I’m glad you’re on the site. I work with couples as well as individuals, so don’t worry if your spouse is unsure of getting help right now. Contact me and I’ll answer any questions you may have about getting started.
With 20+ years of experience I’ve learned that simple communication techniques and formulaic solutions don’t work for the complicated work of rebuilding trust.
Check out my blog to get a better sense of what we do, or contact me to find out more.
The Bridge:
Discover the Surprising Power of Tension in Healing After Infidelity
After an affair, rebuilding trust can feel exhausting, especially when every effort seems to create more pressure, conflict, or distance. In The Bridge: Discover the Surprising Power of Tension in Healing After Infidelity, I draw on 29 years of experience helping couples and individuals navigate infidelity recovery, offering a different path forward.
Rather than forcing trust back into place, I invite couples to pause, let go of repetitive cycles, and begin moving toward a freer, more honest relationship. Click below to read an excerpt from the book and learn more.