Healing after betrayal starts here.
Regain self-trust, rebuild lasting trust, and find a clear path forward.With nearly 30 years of experience helping individuals and couples heal after betrayal. Listen to a short podcast hereBook NowMost advice after infidelity focuses on saving the marriage…
I take a different approach.
Before trust can be rebuilt between two people, it must first be rebuilt within yourself. Healing isn’t about eliminating the tension betrayal creates—it’s about learning to stay steady enough to let that tension transform you.
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About Miriam Bellamy
For the past 29 years, Miriam has focused her professional life on the art and science of infidelity therapy, sex therapy, and marriage therapy using the unconventional yet common sense approach based in Bowen Family Systems Theory. She practiced in Georgia for 18 years and now resides and practices in both Golden and Thornton Colorado and online in Georgia.
Author Miriam Bellamy, LMFT
The Bridge©
A Different Path Through Infidelity
After an affair, people often work tirelessly to rebuild trust. But what if their efforts are making trust less likely to emerge than more? Perhaps you’ve done everything you can to rebuild your relationship, but you still find yourself traumatized, lonely, and lost.
Is there hope?
Miriam Bellamy, LMFT has been helping couples and individuals for 29 years to navigate the uncertain waters of infidelity recovery.
She has discovered that the elusive solution to rebuilding trust in a long-term relationship begins with a pause. It begins with an end. An end to all the trying, the forcing, the attempts to cajole trust into existence.
Only when couples let go (whether the betrayed spouse or the unfaithful one), do they begin to experience the rebirth.
The Bridge: A Different Path Through Infidelity is a guide for thinking, feeling, and moving forward out of repetitive cycles of conflict and distance into a freer and more honest relationship. Click below to read an excerpt from the book and learn more.
“I cannot recommend The Bridge highly enough. Most books about infidelity focus on rebuilding trust in your partner; Miriam does something far more enduring—she helps you rediscover faith in yourself. With a voice that is both compassionate and challenging, she guides readers through one of the hardest human accomplishments possible: rebuilding a self from the ashes of an affair—and with it, the capacity for a deeper, more enduring love.”
— Hal Runkel, NYT bestselling author of ScreamFree Marriage
Trying to rebuild trust after an affair has inherent drawbacks that most of us don’t even consider until we are there. Couples making these efforts run into roadblock after roadblock, and they sadly conclude it must be them rather than the approach.
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