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Webinar Series: Parenting from a Bowen Family Systems Perspective
After a summer hiatus, Kelly and I are back to this series on marriage and family life from a...
Webinar Series: Affair Recovery
Many couples, after the affair, experience a kind of honeymoon phase with high highs and low lows,...
Webinar: Couples Counseling
Join Kelly Matthews, LCSW and Miriam Bellamy, LMFT for the first in a series of 6 short webinars...
Stop Trying to Reconnect
Jamie and Mark started marriage counseling 6 years ago. They weren’t feeling connected anymore,...
How to Recover from an Affair-Part 12
Here in this final post for the 12-part series on infidelity and infidelity counseling, I’d like...
How to Recover from an Affair: Part 11
For the Cheating Spouse A Leg to Stand On I don’t often write posts specifically for the cheating...
How to Recover from an Affair: Part 10
Redefining the Challenge "A problem well defined is half solved." -Pete Bellamy (my dad) John was...
How to Recover from an Affair: Part 9
It’s bigger than you. In the last post, I started exploring the idea that marital infidelity is...
How To Recover From an Affair Part 8
Part 8 It’s not what you deserve. It’s what you believe. Continuing in the vein of this idea that...
How To Recover From An Affair Part 7
It’s not about what you deserve. It’s about what you believe. John was beyond angry. His wife...
How to Recover from an Affair Part 6
It’s not about what you deserve. It’s about what you believe. Sarah had suspected George’s affair...
How to Recover from an Affair Part 5
Self-Doubt and Anxiety after the Affair? Have you had difficulty with self-doubt and anxiety after...