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Marriage Help for Uncertain Times
Coronavirus Has Gone Global... But You Don’t Have To. I must confess. The easiest (and worst)...
What Does Your Family History Have to do With Your Marriage?
According to Bowen Family Systems Theory (BFST), the most important and impactful...
Webinar Series: Parenting from a Bowen Family Systems Perspective
After a summer hiatus, Kelly and I are back to this series on marriage and family life from a...
Webinar Series: Affair Recovery
Many couples, after the affair, experience a kind of honeymoon phase with high highs and low lows,...
Webinar: Couples Counseling
Join Kelly Matthews, LCSW and Miriam Bellamy, LMFT for the first in a series of 6 short webinars...
Stop Trying to Reconnect
Jamie and Mark started marriage counseling 6 years ago. They weren’t feeling connected anymore,...
How to Recover from an Affair-Part 12
Here in this final post for the 12-part series on infidelity and infidelity counseling, I’d like...
How to Recover from an Affair: Part 11
For the Cheating Spouse A Leg to Stand On I don’t often write posts specifically for the cheating...
How to Recover from an Affair: Part 10
Redefining the Challenge "A problem well defined is half solved." -Pete Bellamy (my dad) John was...
How to Recover from an Affair: Part 9
It’s bigger than you. In the last post, I started exploring the idea that marital infidelity is...
How To Recover From an Affair Part 8
Part 8 It’s not what you deserve. It’s what you believe. Continuing in the vein of this idea that...
How To Recover From An Affair Part 7
It’s not about what you deserve. It’s about what you believe. John was beyond angry. His wife...