by Miriam Bellamy | Affair Recovery, Infidelity Counseling, Relationship Coaching
The Bridge Back Hope After Betrayal Couples in affair recovery who are eventually able to trust each other, have done so slowly and deliberately. There is a dedication. A focus. And after years of working with one couple and another, I see each new relationship as its...
by Miriam Bellamy | Affair Recovery, Infidelity Counseling
Is There Hope After Infidelity? I get asked this question a lot. I answer it with a question: hope for what? Depending on the phase of affair recovery you are in, you may be hoping for different things. The early phases are disorienting. One or both of you may still...
by Miriam Bellamy | Affair Recovery
Here in this final post for the 12-part series on infidelity and infidelity counseling, I’d like to go back to the beginning…back to where we started…back to talking about trusting…now in a way you are perhaps ready for. But brace yourselves. This post has the...
by Miriam Bellamy | Affair Recovery
It’s bigger than you. In the last post, I started exploring the idea that marital infidelity is bigger than you and bigger than your relationship. Brian and Wilma discovered this on their own when one of their arguments was unintentionally overheard by their teen and...
by Miriam Bellamy | Affair Recovery
Part 8 It’s not what you deserve. It’s what you believe. Continuing in the vein of this idea that affair recovery, if it’s going to be successful, cannot be stuck in thinking about what you deserve. If a person is to heal, she must begin to really focus on what she...
by Miriam Bellamy | Affair Recovery
It’s not about what you deserve. It’s about what you believe. John was beyond angry. His wife Elizabeth had had an affair with her personal trainer for the last 7 months. When they started infidelity counseling, John was wrecked mentally and emotionally. He was...
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