by Miriam Bellamy | Marriage Counseling
“A problem well-defined is half solved.” —William Kettering Most couples come to me with a deep feeling of disconnection and loneliness in their marriages. They feel emotionally disconnected from their spouse, and most of them have been trying to get connected for...
by Miriam Bellamy | Affair Recovery
After infidelity, one question tends to take over everything: Can I trust this person again? If you were betrayed, you may find yourself analyzing conversations, watching behavior, looking for inconsistencies, and wondering whether what you’re seeing is real. If...
by Miriam Bellamy | Infidelity Counseling
We’ve Been Taught to Mistrust Feelings One of the biggest mistakes we make after infidelity is assuming that our emotions are getting in the way of healing. We want the fear to settle down. We want the anger to stop. We want the sadness to loosen its grip so...
by Miriam Bellamy | Infidelity Counseling
What a Handwoven Tension Bridge in Peru Taught Me About Healing After Infidelity I recently returned from Peru, where I witnessed, for the second time, the rebuilding of the Q’eswachaka Bridge, the last remaining handwoven Incan rope bridge still reconstructed...
by Miriam Bellamy | Affair Recovery
Rebuilding Trust After Infidelity: Why Tension Is the Path Forward (Not the Problem) In traditional infidelity therapy, couples are often encouraged to reduce conflict, increase reassurance, and restore a sense of safety as quickly as possible. While these approaches...
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